This belated letter, Yang Huilin wrote more than 20 letters.
father suddenly died, his daughter remembered her father had hoped to send letters home, she was busy because of unrealized ... ...
day before yesterday, Yang Huilin sudden stroke of his father passed away. Grieving, she played from 0:00 yesterday, 24 hours a day to write to his father, wanted his father's love and memory and regret, all included in a one of the letter, sent to heaven.
Mo lost their parents to wait until the only regret he did not know how to cherish family.
0:00 Daddy, I write to you a
to your letter, you will leave me and my mother. did not leave a word, you know how my mother and I hurt? you know how my mother and I miss you? / p>
yesterday 0:00, Zhong County suburban funeral home, Yang Huilin pick up the pen in a notebook, a single word written, keep the tears fall down. The day before yesterday, his father Yang Sheng Jin due to sudden death stroke.
28-year-old Yang Huilin teach in Chongqing Technology and Business University. Why not stop writing? It turned out that her father often called, told her to write a letter to send home. At this point think of it, then if they can send letters home, even on one, even if only just a few words, the more wonderful! Yang Huilin regret not cope.
Yang Huilin from yesterday 0:00, has been writing, she kept writing, her father wanted to thoughts of love and all the memories, all written down.
3:00 Dad, I will always write to you
it! I am here,Moncler UK, has been written. I've been busy working, have forgotten to write now, I want a one of the handwritten letter, to make up for all of regret. letter
mother Xiong Xiangyu walked behind her, quietly picked up a full written letter, saw her daughter to give her husband a child hair cut, cooked fish soup of memory, all written in the letter , suddenly burst into tears. Do not write to persuade her daughter, so even more sad, but her daughter insisted on writing.
relatives and friends tried to persuade her not to write. But Yang Huilin not agree, but they are not allowed near her writing desk. 4:30, Yang Huilin eyes swollen, mental fatigue, and even the strength to hold a pen is running out, but to be more than write a letter to her father, she insisted. Wrote dawn,UGG Outlet, it was to mourn, her good manners, after the others, but lying on the table to write.
6:00 Dad, I want the letter sent to heaven
Unexpectedly, have become farewell. knew that was the last conversation, I will not hang up ... Father during his lifetime work in Zhong County immigration, retirement, returned to front-line, each call, he is in the countryside, resettlement or overtime. In June, the father said to go to the city to visit her daughter, until his death, he is not too busy to fulfill its promise.
Today, Yang Huilin retrospect did he realize that his father would rather wear the old, and do not squandering the family a penny. She also recalled that she did not accompany his father bought a dish. If all that again, if a film back in time in the fight with her father to buy some new clothes, to accompany his father to buy food, writing many letters sent home, the city with her parents received a life.
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to all the children she would like a word: cherish every minute with their parents, the only way to leave no trace of regret.
public survey
70% of respondents were a lack of communication with their parents
Yesterday, this investigation centers on the public problems, random users for QQ of 50 online survey. Nearly 70% of respondents believed that
lack of communication with the parents of the respondents, 73% of the reason given is Home to see parents, Yusan Cheng respondents said that only parents with fruit, gifts or money. Will accompany their parents to chat, do housework 56%.
data show that lack of communication with parents, adults, the years.
phone or cell phone information and parent communication, accounting for 80%. Call my parents every week, or send SMS, accounting for 52% of the total number of respondents, of which two adults said or communication, or even never contact and communication.
As for the letter to parents and other traditional methods of communication, only 2%.
expert ideas
arrangement and can not wait
children becoming full wing, but can not forget the home of their parents Yi Men expectations. Because the gap of two generations, filial piety was thinking, do not know how to express, so the heart is painful. Or like as Yang Huilin, like filial piety, had no chance.
How do we obey their parents, how to communicate with them then? Let us look at City Academy of Social Psychology Research Center, Sun Yuanming Weapon for you.
believe that parents are my favorite
Cong, who lives in River City Jiulongpo Tianxing Road, Building D,
to work after a few home, parents often urging him to Huijia see. 27-year-old Zhou Ting can be wronged, I feel, like a child when his parents, wisdom must say something, go home a little unhappy.
Sun Yuanming: This phenomenon is very common. This phenomenon is the parenting process, do not pay attention to communication caused. But, regardless of parents' views and practices of right or wrong, all because of love of children. For the wanderers who can not follow suit, but still want to listen, remember and communicate to parents.
parents often say work late, even though early work, but also with friends and shopping, eating, time with their parents, very little. His parents think, wanderers so big, even if no one intimate said.
Sun Yuanming: filial piety can not wait, as the careers of young people, parents should pay attention to communication, have the opportunity to spend more time with their parents. The parents' health diary to the phone, even when the holidays come people can not come,UGG Sale, but also give parents a call. More importantly, the parents say
to help parents develop hobbies
Chen Cheng, who lives in a village Jiulongpo Yangjiaping Xinhua's
ago I do not know how to communicate with their parents feelings. Some time ago, friends parents bought him piano, buy plants, badminton, etc., so that parents have something to do, this way, the old man's life is very colorful.
Sun Yuanming: parents after retirement, time is up, the parents toil of a lifetime, how to spend long time, the children should be of concern. If they had had love, we should encourage them to continue to adhere to. If there is no love, to help parents develop hobbies to enrich their spiritual life.
by their parents talking about is my happiness
Wang, who lives in Dadukou 9th Floor, Hong Kong City, three-unit
he felt that their parents very much, and, do is more trivial matters, was very troubled.
Sun Yuanming: Why do parents love reading about? Not because of love their children. As a child, should be more of a understanding and less blame. To think in their hearts, their parents talking, in fact, a manifestation of their love. Also let the parents see their mature and grow up, so that talking will naturally diminish.
■ This edition correspondent Wang Yun Jian photo coverage
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